Friday 9 August 2019

Spending Money Like Water

I grew up in a traditional Chennai Suburb, during a time when every house had a well in the back and a front yard to put kolam (Rangoli).  Before the times when motor used to pump water to the tank in the terrace or water tankers or municipal water supply.  Water crisis in Chennai meant the water table has gone down to 40 feet.  Paalaru Thanni was a distant dream my dad used to have.

My mother's idea of training  (or torture) us was to make us cup water with our bare hands from the back yard, cross the entire house and take it to the front of the house and give it to the tulsi plant.  You are judged based on how much water you actually managed to take to the front.  For every droplet that fell on the way, you will get a taunt

"ஓட்டை கை " - ottai kai - hand with holes
"பணம் தண்ணியா போகும்டி " - panam thanniyai pogum di - money will go away like water

Honestly that was torture,  she would have made a good military commander. But those statements ingrained in my brain for good.



Today as I observe around me, I see the truth in my mother's wise statements.  How one spends the water does predict how the money is going to be spent, on useful things or wasteful expenditure.  In fact, I have seen that even if one is not into extravagance, expenses have a way of creeping in.

Today water get supplied to our houses, water flows from taps and rain showers, at full force. We have forgotten where this water comes from, its value and spend it as if there is no tomorrow.  Its a sign of affluence.  Any suggestion of water saving or usage restrictions meet with great resistance.

We have dug a 1000 feet to get to any water that we can, even fossilized ones, and finished those too, that too in Bangalore.  With damaged environment, encroached lake beds, destroyed catchment basins, climate change, we see unpredictable weather.  When monsoon is in full swing, one area is flooded and other gets no rain, both places have no water for consumption.  Water has become money.

Now let me ask you "How do you spend your water (/money)?"



Haldi-Kumkum update - Hope is On

Hope is On

Last year after Varamahalakshmi festival, I wrote the blog  The Haldi-Kumkum Disaster.  One year on, I am writing this blog to give update.

This year after visiting 10 households, my waste toll is as follows

  • 3 disposable bags (one telling me that she is just finishing the leftover stock from previous year)
  • 4 haldi-kumkum packets (one obviously reused 👍)
  • 1 blouse piece
  • 1 set of bangles (got 2 sets, but one of them I got to choose the colour and size I needed).


This is less than one-third of my last year's toll.  Its a great feeling receiving my channa in a reusable dabba, my sundal in a beautiful reusable bottle, coconut with haldi-kumkum tikka and reusable fridge bags made of natural materials.  Very few plastic/aluminium disposables used for prasadam also.  And thank you for making me eat with my hands too.  Once again, it felt really great.

Thank you all for making the effort.  Hope is on, that this will also make everyone will re-look at their daily lives too, to see what can be reduced/avoided.   Next year hoping for to see even less of a waste.

Festivals are just yardsticks with which we can measure our attitude towards earth and life everyday.  Hope is on, that we are changing for the better.   

Saturday 27 July 2019

Serendipity - Give chance a chance

We humans try to control and plan our future.  We tend to focus on what didn't go per plan, worry about the same and be unhappy.  Reasons to worry and be unhappy are endless, career, finances, house, kids education, their marriage, their kids, do they care of us and so on.  Things do not always go as per our plans, but something not planned may not be always bad.  If you keep adapting to whats happening, something nice may still happen.  Serendipity is just around the corner, the world is made for us to be happy. 

Realized that today when I was trying to use the camera my husband gifted me.

Munias (spice finches) had nested in my terrace.  I noticed that they babies had fledged.  When this happens a beautiful drama unfolds, where you can see watchful parents trying to teach their little fledglings on the ways of life.  So I took my camera and waited to capture the beautiful story.  Unfortunately, they were so deep in the bushes that I could barely capture anything except some random shots and then all of a sudden they just flew away.   Instead of giving up the shoot, I decided to focus on the only animal around, a squirrel, after all, I am already standing on a stool, looking over a ledge, with camera in full zoom.   And then I managed to get this..

Serendipity

Not by plan but by chance, because the second squirrel came into the frame as I was focused on the first one.  Serendipity - the occurrence and development of events by chance in a happy or beneficial way

Lots of reasons to believe the chance events also lead to happy outcomes, provided you give chance a chance.  So what are you focused on?

PS: If you are wondering, the next morning I captured some extremely beautiful shots of the fledglings..